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父母在孩子的成长中定位是什么?看过来!

2019-09-19 16:04:53 来源:启达教育网

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要学的第一个字是“虚”

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要学的第二个字是:“弱”

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要学的第三个字是:“柔”

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家庭教育的空间一定要留给孩子。

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父母的情绪孕育着孩子学习的情绪与气质。

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教育的最佳状态在于一个“养”字。家庭教育重在养,而不在教。

XIANZAIHAIZIXUEXISHANGDEWENTI,GEZHONGGEYANGDEWENTIGUINAQILAIJIUSHIXINLIDEBUZU,XINLIMIANDUIXUEXIREQINGBUZU。

养鱼重在养水,养树重在养根,养人重在养心。

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