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“老师,孩子交给你了!”这句话害了多少中国式家庭的孩子

2019-09-23 14:23:48 来源:启达教育网

WEIRENFUMU,DOUXIWANGNENGGOUJIHAIZIZUIHAODESHENGHUO,SONGHAIZISHANGZUIHAODEXUEXIAO,DAOTOULAIHAIZIDEXUEXIHECHENGZHANGYITAHUTU,ZHEISHIWEISHENME?“LAOSHI,HAIZIJIAOJINILE。”YOUBUSHAOJIAZHANGRENWEI,HAIZISONGJINXUEXIAO,JIUSHILAOSHIDESHIQINGLE,ZIJIJIUKEYIDANGGE“SHUAISHOUZHANGJU”LA,SHISHIQUEBUSHIZHEIYANG。XIAODALAOSHIDANGCHUJINXUEXIAOSHI,FUMUJIUZHEIYANGSHUO:“LAOSHI,HAIZIJIAOJINILE,BUTINGHUASUIBIANDA。”HAIZIDEJIANKANGCHENGZHANG,YUXUEXIAO、LAOSHI、JIATINGSANQUEYIBUKE,SUOYI,JIAZHANGBUYAOZAIXIANGDESHI“JIAOJILAOSHIJIUSHILAOSHIDESHILE。”QIDAJIAOYULAOSHIWEINIZHENGLILE“LAOSHI,HAIZIJIAOJINILE!”ZHEIJUHUAHAILEDUOSHAOZHONGGUOSHIJIATINGDEHAIZI。

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YOUDUOSHAOJIAZHANGSHUOGUOZHEIJUHUA

“LAOSHI,HAIZIJIUJIAOJINILE”

父母对孩子的教育始终是最核心的、最关键的。

DANFEICHANGYIHANDESHI,JINTIANHENDUOFUMU,YINWEIZISHENGONGZUODENGGEZHONGYUANYIN,BADALIANGDESHIJIANHEJINGLIDOUYONGDAOLEQITAFANGMIAN,BAJIAOYUDESUOYOUZEREN,DOUTUIJIXUEXIAO、TUIJILAOSHI。

YOUDEJIAZHANGRENWEIHAIZIDAOLESHANGXUEDENIANLING,JIAOYUJIUZHUYAOZAIXUEXIAO,ZERENJIUZHUYAOZAILAOSHILE。

YUSHI,JINGCHANGKEYITINGDAOZHEIYANGDEHUA:

“LAOSHI,WOJIAHAIZIJIUJIAOJINILE!”

“DENGDAOLEXUEXIAOJIUHAOLE,ZIRANHUIYOULAOSHIGUANZHETA!”

“LAOSHI,WOJIAHAIZITAIDIAOPILE,MAFANNIHAOHAOJIAOYU!”

“WOYAOZHUANQIAN,MEIYOUSHIJIANGUANTA!”

“HAIZIZHENGTIANZAIXUEXIAO,WOMENZENMEGUANDELE,BIXUKAOLAOSHI!”

“LAOSHI,NINYIJUHUADINGWOMENSHIJU,NINJIUBANGWOJIAOJIAOTA!”

“HAIZIDOUSHILAOSHIJIAOCHULAIDE,WOMENJIAHAIZITINGHUADONGSHI,NEIDOUSHILAOSHIGUANDEHAO;WOMENJIAHAIZIDIAOPIBUXUEHAO,DOUGUAILAOSHIMEIJIAOHAO!”

……

BUSHAOJIAZHANGWANQUANZHIWANGLAOSHIJIAOYUHAIZI,FEICHANGYILAILAOSHI,FANGFOLAOSHIYOU“SANTOULIUBEI”,NENGZHAOGUDAOBANSHANGSUOYOUHAIZI。

SHENZHIXIWANGLAOSHIKEYIQUANQUANBAOBANHAIZIDEYIQIE!

DANLAOSHIBUSHIWANNENGDE,YOUXIESHIQINGLAOSHIZHENDEZUOBULE。

LAOSHIJIBULENIHAIZILIANGHAODEXIGUAN、LAOSHIBUNENGBAOZHENGNIHAIZILIANGHAODEPINXING、LAOSHIBUNENGBANGNIPEIYANGHAIZIDEYIZHI、LAOSHIJIBULENIHAIZIZHANGJIUDEXINGFUGAN……

亲爱的家长,别把学校当成解决学生一切问题的殿堂,别把老师当成解决一切问题的圣贤,别把教育当成背负一切责任的机器!

JIAOSHIZHISHIYIGEZHIYE,JIUXIANGQIANQIANWANWANGEZHIYEYIYANG。

ZUOWEILAOSHI,ZUIZHUYAODEZHIZESHICHUANDAOSHOUYEJIEHUO!

DANSHIJIAOHAOYIGEHAIZI,JUEDUIBUZHISHILAOSHIYIGERENDEZEREN,GENGSHIJIAZHANGDEZEREN。

HAIZIBUSHILAOSHIDE,FUMUYONGYUANSHIHAIZIDEZHONGSHENLAOSHI!

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JIAOYUHAIZI

FUMUDEYINGXIANGYUANYUANDAYUXUEXIAO

教书的是老师,但育人的一定是父母。

HUOXUHENDUORENDOUBEIWANGSHANGDEYIBUTAIGUODUANPIANGANDONGGUO、YINGXIANGGUO。

XIAONVHAIJuSHENGHUOZAIYIGEBINGBUFUYUDEJIATINGLI,YOUYICITAHETAMAMAYIQIQUCAISHICHANG。

JuYIZHIDINGZHEYIGETANWEIZAIKAN,MAMAZHUYIDAOLE,BIANWEN:“Ju,NIZAIKANSHENMENI?”

YUANLAIXIAONVHAIJuKANDAOLEDOUYATANSHANGYOUXUDUORENZAIMAIDOUYA,BIANWENMAMA:“WEISHENMEDOUYAMAIDENEIMEHAO,DAJIADOUZAIMAIDOUYA?”

MAMAHUIDASHUO:“YINWEIZHIYOUYIGETANPUZAIMAIDOUYAYA。”

ZHEISHI,JuWENMAMA:“WOMENKEYIZHONGLAIMAIMA?”

MAMADEHUIDASHI:“HAO,WOMENSHISHI。”

YIBANRENTINGDAOHAIZIZHEIYANGDEHUA,KENENGHUIDUIHAIZISHUO:“BIENAOLE,WOMENNAYOUSHIJIANZHONGDOUYA!”、“HAOHAODUSHU,BIEGUANSHENMEZHONGDOUYADESHIQING。”

YOUYUQUEFAZHONGZHIDEJINGYAN,ZAIDIYICISHISHUIHOU,DOUYAQUANBUKUSI。

MUNVLIANGKANZHEKUSIDEDOUYAMIAO,DOUHENSHANGXIN,DANSHIZAINVERMIANQIAN,MUQINZONGSHIYIFUXINXINSHIZUDEYANGZI,MAMASHUO:“MEIGUANXI,WOMENLAISHISHIBA!”

YUSHI,MAMAZHAOLAILEZHONGZHIDOUYADESHU,ANZHAOSHUZHONGDEFANGFAGENNVERZAICICHANGSHI,JIEGUOFAXIANHAISHISHIBAILE。

DANGTAMENJIJIYANJIUWENTI,ZAICICHANGSHISHI,XIAONVHAIDANXINDIZAIWEN:“ZHEICIHUICHENGGONGMA?”

MAMADEHUIDAZONGSHICHONGMANLILIANG,“WOMENSHISHI!”

ZUIZHONG,TAMENCHENGGONGLE,XIAONVHAIKANDAODOUYAZHANGCHUDEYANGZI,JIANZHILEKAILEHUA。

MAMAKANDAOKAIXINDEJu,WENDAO:“WOMENYAOBUYAOSHISHIZHONGDIANBIEDE?”

XIAONVHAISIHUYIJINGXUEDAOLEZHEIZHONGSIWEIFANGSHI,DUIMAMASHUO:“WOMENSHISHI!”

CHENGNIANHOUDENVERHUIYISHUO:“MAMASHUODE‘WOMENLAISHISHI’JIUXIANGSHENQIDEFEILIAO,YANGYUZHEWODEHAOQIXIN,BANGWODE‘ZHISHIZHISHU’ZHIFANYEMAO。”

GUSHIZHONGXIAONVHAIDEYUANXING,XIANSHISHENGHUOZHONGJIAONetnapa Saelee。

TAHUODELEJIANGXUEJIN,MUQIANZAIRUIDIANZUOYANJIUGONGZUO。

WEIDADEMUQINHETADEJIAOYUFANGSHIGONGBUKEMEI。

JIATINGJIAOYUSHIJIAOYUDEJICHU,SHIZUIBUKEHUOQUEDEYIBUFEN,YESHIHAIZIZHENGGECHENGZHANGGUOCHENGZHONGZUIJIANSHIDEHOUDUN。

LIANGHAODEJIATINGJIAOYU,GENGYIPEIYANGCHUYOUXIUDEHAIZI。

家长请记住:父母是孩子的第一任老师,影响超过所有的老师。

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JIAOYURUOZHIKAOLAOSHI

NEIJIUZHENDESHIDANWUHAIZI

XIANGXINBUSHAOJIAZHANGDOUYOUZHEIYANGYIGEYIHUO:

TONGYANGDEBANJI,TONGYANGDELAOSHI,WEISHENMEYOUDEHAIZIGUAIQIAODONGSHI、CHENGJIYOUXIU,YOUDEHAIZIQUEDIAOPIDAODAN,CHENGJICHANI?

YINWEIJIAOYUHAIZIZHEIJIANSHIBUNENGDANKAOLAOSHI,FOUZEJIUTAIDANWUHAIZILE。

CENGZAIWANGSHANGKANDAOZHEIYANGYIGEDUANZI:

JIESONGHAIZISHANGXUEFANGXUESHI,

RUIZHIXINGJIAZHANGZHEIYANGWENHAIZI:

BAOBEI,JINTIANZAIXUEXIAOYUDAOSHENMEYOUQUDESHIQINGA?

BAOBEI,JINTIANLAOSHIGENMAMASHUONICHANGGEZHENHAOTING,HUIJIANENGCHANGJIMAMATINGMA?

BAOBEI,JINTIANNIYOUSHENMEZUOYEMA?

JIEJU:HAIZIHUODECHENGJIUGAN,HAIZIYUELAIYUEXIHUANSHANGXUE,XUEXICHENGJIDANGRANYUELAIYUEHAO。

QIPAXINGJIAZHANGZHEIYANGWENHAIZI:

BAOBEI,JINTIANLAOSHIPIPINGNILEMA?NISHUOSHIHUA!

BAOBEI,JINTIANLAOSHIGENMAMASHUONIBUTINGHUA,ZENMEHUISHIANI!

BAOBEI,NIJINTIANZAIXUEXIAOJIUXUEHUIZHEIMEDIANDONGXIA?

JIEJU:JIAZHANGBUDUANFUMIANQIANGHUA,HAIZIYUELAIYUEBUXIHUANSHANGXUE,XUEXICHENGJIDANGRANYUELAIYUECHA。

ZAIHAIZIKAISHISHANGXUEZHIHOU,JIAZHANGDEXINGWEIMOSHI,DOUJIANGCHENGWEIHAIZIZHIJIANLAKAIJULIDEYUANYIN。

ZHEIYEJIUSHIJIAOYUJIECHANGSHUODE“5+2”LILUN。

SUOWEIDE“5+2”LILUN,JIUSHISHUO5+2=0,ZHI5TIANDEXUEXIAOJIAOYUPOYOUCHENGXIAO,DAN2TIANDEJIATINGJIAOYUMEIYOUGENSHANG,NEIMEHAIZIDEJIAOYUSHIZHONGHUIZAIYUANDIDAZHUAN,SHENZHIYUELAIYUECHA。

CHENGJIUYIGEHAIZI,SHILAOSHIHEJIAZHANGGONGTONGNULIDEJIEGUO。

YOUXIEJIAOYU,RUGUODANDANZHIKAOLAOSHI,ZHENDEBUKEYI。

HAIZIDEJIAOYU,DIYIGEFUZERENYINGGAISHIJIAZHANG,ERQIEZUILEJIEHAIZIDEYESHIJIAZHANG。

LAOSHIXIWANGNENGHEJIAZHANGJIANLILIANXI,JISHIZHANGWOHAIZIDEQINGKUANG,HAONENGJISHIDIAOZHENGDUIHAIZIDEJIAOYUFANGSHI,ZUODAOYINCAISHIJIAO。

HAIZIZUIZHONGJIAOYUCHENGSHENMEYANG,SHIJIATINGJIAOYU、XUEXIAOJIAOYUYIJISHEHUIJIAOYUGONGTONGJUEDINGDE。

所以,孩子成长的每一步,都需要家长睿智的参与。

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HAIZIDECHENGZHANGLUSHANG

XUYAOJIAZHANGHELAOSHIBINGJIANQIANXING

“JIAOYU”ERZI,BAOHANZHE“JIAO”YU“YU”。

LAOSHICHUANSHOUZHISHI,JIAZHANGYANGYUHAIZI。

BUGUANHESHI,LAOSHIHEJIAZHANGDEMUBIAOSHIZHONGSHIYIZHIDE,ZERENHESHIMINGSHIZHONGSHIXIANGTONGDE。

NEIJIUSHI,GONGTONGJIAOYUHAOHAIZI。

JIAOYUJUYOUSHUANGXIANGXING,XUYAOJIAZHANGHELAOSHIDEXIANGHUPEIHE。

QIANWANBUYAOJUEDEBAHAIZISONGDAOXUEXIAO,JIAOJILAOSHIJIUWANSHIDAJILE。

优秀的孩子必然是良好的家庭教育和学校教育的产物,家校形成合力,才是教育孩子的正确的打开方式。

YIWEIZISHENJIAOYUZHUANJIACENGSHUO:“JIAZHANGYUXUEXIAOPEIHEDEYUEHAO,JIAOYUJIUYUECHENGGONG。”

ZUIHAODEJIAOYUGUANXIYINGSHI:JIAZHANGZHICHILAOSHI,LAOSHIZHICHIHAIZI!

QINGHUAFUXIAODEXIAOZHANGDOUGUIMEINVSHICENGZAIZIJIDEBOKESHANGDUIJIAZHANGTICHUSANDIANJIANYI:

DIYI、WOTEBIEXIWANGWOMENDEJIAZHANGBUSHIPEIHEXUEXIAO,ERSHIWOMENGONGTONGLAIYINGZAOHUOZHEGONGTONGQUDACHENGYIZHONGCHENGZHANGDEJIBENJIAZHIGUAN。

DIER、WOTEBIEDIBAITUOWOMENDEJIAZHANGHEXUEXIAOBUSHIJIAYIFANGDEGUANXI,YEBUSHIDIWOMAODUN,WOMENDEGUANXIYINGGAISHIQUGONGTONGDIWANCHENGYIXIERENWU。

DISAN、YESHIZUIZHONGYAODEYIDIAN,WOTEBIEKENQINGWOMENDEJIAZHANGMEN,JIAOYUBUSHIXUEXIAOYIFANGDESHI,WOMENYINGGAIGONGTONGYOUGONGYIDEQINGHUAI。

ZAIJIAOYUHAIZIDEZHEITIAOLUSHANG,LAOSHIHEJIAZHANGDEXIANGYU,NENGGOUPENGZHUANGCHUZUIDADEJIAOYUHUOHUA。

LAOSHITONGGUOYIGEHAIZI,KEYIKANDAOTABEIHOUDEJIAZHANG,YIJIZHENGGEJIATING。

XIANGDUIDE,JIAZHANGDUIDAILAOSHIDETAIDU,YEYINGXIANGLELAOSHIDUIDAIHAIZIDETAIDU。

只有家长配合老师,老师支持孩子,彼此达成一致的教育观念,才能形成一个稳固的三角关系,支撑着孩子在成长的道路上越走越远,越走越好。

ZHEICAISHIJIHAIZIZUIHAODEJIAOYU!

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