2019-09-23 14:23:48 来源：启达教育网
WEIRENFUMU，DOUXIWANGNENGGOUJIHAIZIZUIHAODESHENGHUO，SONGHAIZISHANGZUIHAODEXUEXIAO，DAOTOULAIHAIZIDEXUEXIHECHENGZHANGYITAHUTU，ZHEISHIWEISHENME？“LAOSHI，HAIZIJIAOJINILE。”YOUBUSHAOJIAZHANGRENWEI，HAIZISONGJINXUEXIAO，JIUSHILAOSHIDESHIQINGLE，ZIJIJIUKEYIDANGGE“SHUAISHOUZHANGJU”LA，SHISHIQUEBUSHIZHEIYANG。XIAODALAOSHIDANGCHUJINXUEXIAOSHI，FUMUJIUZHEIYANGSHUO：“LAOSHI，HAIZIJIAOJINILE，BUTINGHUASUIBIANDA。”HAIZIDEJIANKANGCHENGZHANG，YUXUEXIAO、LAOSHI、JIATINGSANQUEYIBUKE，SUOYI，JIAZHANGBUYAOZAIXIANGDESHI“JIAOJILAOSHIJIUSHILAOSHIDESHILE。”QIDAJIAOYULAOSHIWEINIZHENGLILE“LAOSHI，HAIZIJIAOJINILE!”ZHEIJUHUAHAILEDUOSHAOZHONGGUOSHIJIATINGDEHAIZI。
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YOUDUOSHAOJIAZHANGSHUOGUOZHEIJUHUA
“LAOSHI，HAIZIJIUJIAOJINILE”
父母对孩子的教育始终是最核心的、最关键的。
DANFEICHANGYIHANDESHI，JINTIANHENDUOFUMU，YINWEIZISHENGONGZUODENGGEZHONGYUANYIN，BADALIANGDESHIJIANHEJINGLIDOUYONGDAOLEQITAFANGMIAN，BAJIAOYUDESUOYOUZEREN，DOUTUIJIXUEXIAO、TUIJILAOSHI。
YOUDEJIAZHANGRENWEIHAIZIDAOLESHANGXUEDENIANLING，JIAOYUJIUZHUYAOZAIXUEXIAO，ZERENJIUZHUYAOZAILAOSHILE。
YUSHI，JINGCHANGKEYITINGDAOZHEIYANGDEHUA：
“LAOSHI，WOJIAHAIZIJIUJIAOJINILE!”
“DENGDAOLEXUEXIAOJIUHAOLE，ZIRANHUIYOULAOSHIGUANZHETA!”
“LAOSHI，WOJIAHAIZITAIDIAOPILE，MAFANNIHAOHAOJIAOYU!”
“WOYAOZHUANQIAN，MEIYOUSHIJIANGUANTA!”
“HAIZIZHENGTIANZAIXUEXIAO，WOMENZENMEGUANDELE，BIXUKAOLAOSHI!”
“LAOSHI，NINYIJUHUADINGWOMENSHIJU，NINJIUBANGWOJIAOJIAOTA!”
“HAIZIDOUSHILAOSHIJIAOCHULAIDE，WOMENJIAHAIZITINGHUADONGSHI，NEIDOUSHILAOSHIGUANDEHAO；WOMENJIAHAIZIDIAOPIBUXUEHAO，DOUGUAILAOSHIMEIJIAOHAO!”
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BUSHAOJIAZHANGWANQUANZHIWANGLAOSHIJIAOYUHAIZI，FEICHANGYILAILAOSHI，FANGFOLAOSHIYOU“SANTOULIUBEI”，NENGZHAOGUDAOBANSHANGSUOYOUHAIZI。
SHENZHIXIWANGLAOSHIKEYIQUANQUANBAOBANHAIZIDEYIQIE!
DANLAOSHIBUSHIWANNENGDE，YOUXIESHIQINGLAOSHIZHENDEZUOBULE。
LAOSHIJIBULENIHAIZILIANGHAODEXIGUAN、LAOSHIBUNENGBAOZHENGNIHAIZILIANGHAODEPINXING、LAOSHIBUNENGBANGNIPEIYANGHAIZIDEYIZHI、LAOSHIJIBULENIHAIZIZHANGJIUDEXINGFUGAN……
亲爱的家长，别把学校当成解决学生一切问题的殿堂，别把老师当成解决一切问题的圣贤，别把教育当成背负一切责任的机器！
JIAOSHIZHISHIYIGEZHIYE，JIUXIANGQIANQIANWANWANGEZHIYEYIYANG。
ZUOWEILAOSHI，ZUIZHUYAODEZHIZESHICHUANDAOSHOUYEJIEHUO!
DANSHIJIAOHAOYIGEHAIZI，JUEDUIBUZHISHILAOSHIYIGERENDEZEREN，GENGSHIJIAZHANGDEZEREN。
HAIZIBUSHILAOSHIDE，FUMUYONGYUANSHIHAIZIDEZHONGSHENLAOSHI!
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JIAOYUHAIZI
FUMUDEYINGXIANGYUANYUANDAYUXUEXIAO
教书的是老师，但育人的一定是父母。
HUOXUHENDUORENDOUBEIWANGSHANGDEYIBUTAIGUODUANPIANGANDONGGUO、YINGXIANGGUO。
XIAONVHAIJuSHENGHUOZAIYIGEBINGBUFUYUDEJIATINGLI，YOUYICITAHETAMAMAYIQIQUCAISHICHANG。
JuYIZHIDINGZHEYIGETANWEIZAIKAN，MAMAZHUYIDAOLE，BIANWEN：“Ju，NIZAIKANSHENMENI？”
YUANLAIXIAONVHAIJuKANDAOLEDOUYATANSHANGYOUXUDUORENZAIMAIDOUYA，BIANWENMAMA：“WEISHENMEDOUYAMAIDENEIMEHAO，DAJIADOUZAIMAIDOUYA？”
MAMAHUIDASHUO：“YINWEIZHIYOUYIGETANPUZAIMAIDOUYAYA。”
ZHEISHI，JuWENMAMA：“WOMENKEYIZHONGLAIMAIMA？”
MAMADEHUIDASHI：“HAO，WOMENSHISHI。”
YIBANRENTINGDAOHAIZIZHEIYANGDEHUA，KENENGHUIDUIHAIZISHUO：“BIENAOLE，WOMENNAYOUSHIJIANZHONGDOUYA!”、“HAOHAODUSHU，BIEGUANSHENMEZHONGDOUYADESHIQING。”
YOUYUQUEFAZHONGZHIDEJINGYAN，ZAIDIYICISHISHUIHOU，DOUYAQUANBUKUSI。
MUNVLIANGKANZHEKUSIDEDOUYAMIAO，DOUHENSHANGXIN，DANSHIZAINVERMIANQIAN，MUQINZONGSHIYIFUXINXINSHIZUDEYANGZI，MAMASHUO：“MEIGUANXI，WOMENLAISHISHIBA!”
YUSHI，MAMAZHAOLAILEZHONGZHIDOUYADESHU，ANZHAOSHUZHONGDEFANGFAGENNVERZAICICHANGSHI，JIEGUOFAXIANHAISHISHIBAILE。
DANGTAMENJIJIYANJIUWENTI，ZAICICHANGSHISHI，XIAONVHAIDANXINDIZAIWEN：“ZHEICIHUICHENGGONGMA？”
MAMADEHUIDAZONGSHICHONGMANLILIANG，“WOMENSHISHI!”
ZUIZHONG，TAMENCHENGGONGLE，XIAONVHAIKANDAODOUYAZHANGCHUDEYANGZI，JIANZHILEKAILEHUA。
MAMAKANDAOKAIXINDEJu，WENDAO：“WOMENYAOBUYAOSHISHIZHONGDIANBIEDE？”
XIAONVHAISIHUYIJINGXUEDAOLEZHEIZHONGSIWEIFANGSHI，DUIMAMASHUO：“WOMENSHISHI!”
CHENGNIANHOUDENVERHUIYISHUO：“MAMASHUODE‘WOMENLAISHISHI’JIUXIANGSHENQIDEFEILIAO，YANGYUZHEWODEHAOQIXIN，BANGWODE‘ZHISHIZHISHU’ZHIFANYEMAO。”
GUSHIZHONGXIAONVHAIDEYUANXING，XIANSHISHENGHUOZHONGJIAONetnapa Saelee。
TAHUODELEJIANGXUEJIN，MUQIANZAIRUIDIANZUOYANJIUGONGZUO。
WEIDADEMUQINHETADEJIAOYUFANGSHIGONGBUKEMEI。
JIATINGJIAOYUSHIJIAOYUDEJICHU，SHIZUIBUKEHUOQUEDEYIBUFEN，YESHIHAIZIZHENGGECHENGZHANGGUOCHENGZHONGZUIJIANSHIDEHOUDUN。
LIANGHAODEJIATINGJIAOYU，GENGYIPEIYANGCHUYOUXIUDEHAIZI。
家长请记住：父母是孩子的第一任老师，影响超过所有的老师。
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JIAOYURUOZHIKAOLAOSHI
NEIJIUZHENDESHIDANWUHAIZI
XIANGXINBUSHAOJIAZHANGDOUYOUZHEIYANGYIGEYIHUO：
TONGYANGDEBANJI，TONGYANGDELAOSHI，WEISHENMEYOUDEHAIZIGUAIQIAODONGSHI、CHENGJIYOUXIU，YOUDEHAIZIQUEDIAOPIDAODAN，CHENGJICHANI？
YINWEIJIAOYUHAIZIZHEIJIANSHIBUNENGDANKAOLAOSHI，FOUZEJIUTAIDANWUHAIZILE。
CENGZAIWANGSHANGKANDAOZHEIYANGYIGEDUANZI：
JIESONGHAIZISHANGXUEFANGXUESHI，
RUIZHIXINGJIAZHANGZHEIYANGWENHAIZI：
BAOBEI，JINTIANZAIXUEXIAOYUDAOSHENMEYOUQUDESHIQINGA？
BAOBEI，JINTIANLAOSHIGENMAMASHUONICHANGGEZHENHAOTING，HUIJIANENGCHANGJIMAMATINGMA？
BAOBEI，JINTIANNIYOUSHENMEZUOYEMA？
JIEJU：HAIZIHUODECHENGJIUGAN，HAIZIYUELAIYUEXIHUANSHANGXUE，XUEXICHENGJIDANGRANYUELAIYUEHAO。
QIPAXINGJIAZHANGZHEIYANGWENHAIZI：
BAOBEI，JINTIANLAOSHIPIPINGNILEMA？NISHUOSHIHUA!
BAOBEI，JINTIANLAOSHIGENMAMASHUONIBUTINGHUA，ZENMEHUISHIANI!
BAOBEI，NIJINTIANZAIXUEXIAOJIUXUEHUIZHEIMEDIANDONGXIA？
JIEJU：JIAZHANGBUDUANFUMIANQIANGHUA，HAIZIYUELAIYUEBUXIHUANSHANGXUE，XUEXICHENGJIDANGRANYUELAIYUECHA。
ZAIHAIZIKAISHISHANGXUEZHIHOU，JIAZHANGDEXINGWEIMOSHI，DOUJIANGCHENGWEIHAIZIZHIJIANLAKAIJULIDEYUANYIN。
ZHEIYEJIUSHIJIAOYUJIECHANGSHUODE“5+2”LILUN。
SUOWEIDE“5+2”LILUN，JIUSHISHUO5+2=0，ZHI5TIANDEXUEXIAOJIAOYUPOYOUCHENGXIAO，DAN2TIANDEJIATINGJIAOYUMEIYOUGENSHANG，NEIMEHAIZIDEJIAOYUSHIZHONGHUIZAIYUANDIDAZHUAN，SHENZHIYUELAIYUECHA。
CHENGJIUYIGEHAIZI，SHILAOSHIHEJIAZHANGGONGTONGNULIDEJIEGUO。
YOUXIEJIAOYU，RUGUODANDANZHIKAOLAOSHI，ZHENDEBUKEYI。
HAIZIDEJIAOYU，DIYIGEFUZERENYINGGAISHIJIAZHANG，ERQIEZUILEJIEHAIZIDEYESHIJIAZHANG。
LAOSHIXIWANGNENGHEJIAZHANGJIANLILIANXI，JISHIZHANGWOHAIZIDEQINGKUANG，HAONENGJISHIDIAOZHENGDUIHAIZIDEJIAOYUFANGSHI，ZUODAOYINCAISHIJIAO。
HAIZIZUIZHONGJIAOYUCHENGSHENMEYANG，SHIJIATINGJIAOYU、XUEXIAOJIAOYUYIJISHEHUIJIAOYUGONGTONGJUEDINGDE。
所以，孩子成长的每一步，都需要家长睿智的参与。
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HAIZIDECHENGZHANGLUSHANG
XUYAOJIAZHANGHELAOSHIBINGJIANQIANXING
“JIAOYU”ERZI，BAOHANZHE“JIAO”YU“YU”。
LAOSHICHUANSHOUZHISHI，JIAZHANGYANGYUHAIZI。
BUGUANHESHI，LAOSHIHEJIAZHANGDEMUBIAOSHIZHONGSHIYIZHIDE，ZERENHESHIMINGSHIZHONGSHIXIANGTONGDE。
NEIJIUSHI，GONGTONGJIAOYUHAOHAIZI。
JIAOYUJUYOUSHUANGXIANGXING，XUYAOJIAZHANGHELAOSHIDEXIANGHUPEIHE。
QIANWANBUYAOJUEDEBAHAIZISONGDAOXUEXIAO，JIAOJILAOSHIJIUWANSHIDAJILE。
优秀的孩子必然是良好的家庭教育和学校教育的产物，家校形成合力，才是教育孩子的正确的打开方式。
YIWEIZISHENJIAOYUZHUANJIACENGSHUO：“JIAZHANGYUXUEXIAOPEIHEDEYUEHAO，JIAOYUJIUYUECHENGGONG。”
ZUIHAODEJIAOYUGUANXIYINGSHI：JIAZHANGZHICHILAOSHI，LAOSHIZHICHIHAIZI!
QINGHUAFUXIAODEXIAOZHANGDOUGUIMEINVSHICENGZAIZIJIDEBOKESHANGDUIJIAZHANGTICHUSANDIANJIANYI：
DIYI、WOTEBIEXIWANGWOMENDEJIAZHANGBUSHIPEIHEXUEXIAO，ERSHIWOMENGONGTONGLAIYINGZAOHUOZHEGONGTONGQUDACHENGYIZHONGCHENGZHANGDEJIBENJIAZHIGUAN。
DIER、WOTEBIEDIBAITUOWOMENDEJIAZHANGHEXUEXIAOBUSHIJIAYIFANGDEGUANXI，YEBUSHIDIWOMAODUN，WOMENDEGUANXIYINGGAISHIQUGONGTONGDIWANCHENGYIXIERENWU。
DISAN、YESHIZUIZHONGYAODEYIDIAN，WOTEBIEKENQINGWOMENDEJIAZHANGMEN，JIAOYUBUSHIXUEXIAOYIFANGDESHI，WOMENYINGGAIGONGTONGYOUGONGYIDEQINGHUAI。
ZAIJIAOYUHAIZIDEZHEITIAOLUSHANG，LAOSHIHEJIAZHANGDEXIANGYU，NENGGOUPENGZHUANGCHUZUIDADEJIAOYUHUOHUA。
LAOSHITONGGUOYIGEHAIZI，KEYIKANDAOTABEIHOUDEJIAZHANG，YIJIZHENGGEJIATING。
XIANGDUIDE，JIAZHANGDUIDAILAOSHIDETAIDU，YEYINGXIANGLELAOSHIDUIDAIHAIZIDETAIDU。
只有家长配合老师，老师支持孩子，彼此达成一致的教育观念，才能形成一个稳固的三角关系，支撑着孩子在成长的道路上越走越远，越走越好。
ZHEICAISHIJIHAIZIZUIHAODEJIAOYU!
